Do it for Yourself-not him

Nurturing Your Faith Independently and Together

In the realm of relationships, it's easy to blur the lines between personal growth and the desires of our partners. This is especially true when it comes to matters of faith. While sharing spiritual journeys can be enriching, finding your connection with God should ultimately stem from your own convictions, not external pressures or influences, including those of your significant other.

The essence of faith lies in a deeply personal relationship with one's spirituality. It's about finding solace, guidance, and purpose within oneself. When faith becomes intertwined with the desires or expectations of a partner, it can inadvertently dilute its authenticity. Your spiritual journey should be a reflection of your own beliefs, values, and convictions. If I am being honest this is something that I have had to constantly check myself for and make sure my attentions are pure.

Discovering and nurturing your faith alone grants you the opportunity for introspection and personal growth. It allows you to explore different avenues of spirituality, understand your beliefs, and build a strong foundation for your relationship with God. I've had to take time to carve out moments for quiet reflection, engaging in prayer or meditation, reading spiritual texts, and participating in activities that bring me closer to my understanding of the divine.

However, I have found out that when both partners share a common faith or spiritual pursuit, it can deepen the connection and understanding between them. Here are some ways my partner and I plan to navigate and foster a shared spiritual journey while maintaining individual growth:

1. Open Communication: Have honest conversations about our individual beliefs, doubts, and spiritual aspirations. Encourage each other to grow without imposing expectations.

2. Joint Practices: Engage in spiritual practices together, such as attending religious services, studying scriptures, or volunteering for causes aligned with our beliefs.

3. Respect Differences: Embrace the fact that we might have different interpretations or paths within our faith. Respect and learn from these differences rather than allowing them to create division.

4. Support and Encouragement: Be each other's cheerleaders in the pursuit of personal spiritual growth. Encourage and support individual efforts towards a deeper connection with God.

5. Alone Time with God: Allocate time for individual spiritual practices. Whether it's prayer, meditation, or personal study, prioritize moments to strengthen your personal relationship with your faith.

I've had to remember, that nurturing my faith for myself enriches not only my relationship with the divine but also my relationship with my partner. It allows for authenticity, growth, and a deeper understanding of oneself and each other.

In essence, while shared beliefs can enhance a relationship, the foundation of faith should stem from personal conviction and connection. Embrace the individuality of your spiritual journey while also cherishing the beauty of growing together in faith.

As I become closer to God, I have found myself getting closer to my partner and that makes me very excited for our future and my continued journey.